Free Guide: FCS Mediation Dos & Don’ts

The 15 rules experienced family law attorneys teach their own clients before Family Court Services custody mediation — what to say, what never to say, and why you never have to sign anything on the spot. From Jennifer J. Moore, California family law attorney, creator of the Mediation Ready™ workbook.

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    Know Your County

    In about 30 of California’s 58 counties, the mediator writes a recommendation the judge reads before your hearing. Rule #1 tells you how to find out — and why it changes how you prepare.

    Say It Right

    “Our child,” never “my child.” Facts plus proposals, never accusations. The language that builds credibility with the mediator — and the phrases that quietly cost parents their case.

    Protect Yourself

    Your rights in the room: separate sessions where there’s a DV history, support persons, and the one sentence every parent should memorize — “I’d like to review this before signing.”